Dropping by Tori, to lend my support. Call it what you will but I think Karma does exist, here's the kicker though....you get back what you put out, is what I think. So, H will get back what he puts out just as we all do.
I went through some rough times and when I needed it the universe was there for me, but I had to see it. These were things that old Ruby would have ignored and instead focused on the negative.
A challenge maybe is to take every experience one day and find something good. I am going to tell you now, laundry was a tough one...lol! But I realized that I spent much much more of my energy on the bad things and when I realized that and began to turn it around, so did everything else in my life.
You really are amazing Tori. . I wish you nothing but happiness, love and peace.