Confused by WAS

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W and her two best friends argued last night. Essentially they are confused by her actions and she says it is none of their business. She was very upset about this and spoke with me in great detail about. This is the most we have talked about us in forever. The down side is that she said with the added pressure from the friends it makes her feel worse and even more want to get away. I listened alot and didn't say much. I tried to validate as much as I could. Now here is the kicker. 30 minutes later she was laying beside me in bed and asked to ML. Even though I wanted to, I gave her a half confused look. She asked me if it was to confusing for me. She said that she feels so lonely. She has never remotely said or acted like this before. I asked her if being lonely was the reason she wanted to ML and she said I don't know. She then said "just like I don't want to be pressure into talking about our R, talking about why we are going to ML is very stressing also". So we did. She stayed in my arms all night. I thought it was wonderful. She has continued to be very upset today about her friends. She talked with me again this morning about it.

So, I am still just as confused as before. Is her acknowledgement of being lonely a good or bad sign? Is the wanting to ML good/bad? Obviously the friends think they are helping but it is definitely not that way. I have spoken with them months ago about the situation but not really recently. W doesn't want me to talk to them so I will try to honor that.

Any insight/comments are greatly appreciated.