I also suggested he get a l. But my main point is that HIS work needs to be on HIM and not diagnosing his wife.
I've seen nothing about what his 180s are or what work he's doing to become the best person he can become. Since that is the only person he actually can control or influence
that is where the focus must be. But it's much easier to blame the other...and never take that journey within, but that is where the real journey is.
That is where the growth comes in and if this painful ordeal has ANY upside, it's how WE improve...regardless of what the spouse does.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
