That was easy enough to understand....lol The "it aint over till its over" type of comment... And I know that stranger things have happened in life...so you really cant ever say never. However, if the other person has moved on from the old relationship and has made a new life for themselves that doesn't include me, or even want a small piece of me in her life, its a little hard to wrap my brain around how my efforts might turn things around. I guess we will just have to wait and see....as the one thing I have read over and over as well as seen in post after post....its all about patience! I know we want what we want, and we wanted it yesterday...and at times we miss what we had so badly that our pain tells us if we could just go back we would in a heart beat, but it wouldn't be back in the way that either need it to be. Getting a life, taking exceptional care of yourself, as well as being a happy person again is primary to making yourself look better and better for that possible second look.
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12
