Still working on me

[sweetbabyred]

I can't believe it's been over a week since I've posted. I've still been reading along, but school has kept me too busy to report.

I've noticed on other threads a discussion about being unsuccessful if you end up D. I admit that my mind is entirely on school, so I've been thinking about this in terms of group projects.

When most of us found this site, we were so upset and couldn't figure out what was happening or why. Then we learned skills to help us become better people and how to communicate and be better partners.

So we've all been doing our parts to fix our faults and ensure we don't go back to our old ways. But, like with any group project, our part can be amazing and perfect, but if the other members don't pull their weight, turn in things late or incomplete, or just give up, it doesn't matter how great we've done-overall the project (M) will fail.

As we've all learned, we have no control over our spouses, but no matter how our sitch eventually ends, if we've done the absolute best we can, we have been successful.

Ok, time to get back to research.