I've been saying I don't want to get married again, and I claimed that the reason was, that getting UNmarried was such a pain in the neck, I don't ever want to go through that again.
(Which I guess reflects a certain loss of innocence, that I'll never again believe naively in forever love)
I didn't THINK I was scared to get involved in a long-term relationship though. Lately, I've had to come to grips with the fact that I've developed some Love Avoidant characteristics myself, though, and that I'm more comfortable dating unavailable guys, than I would be dating someone who wanted the whole enchilada with me. Definitely some scars, I guess.
