I formerly posted under,"I keep on keepin on". The attorney has been hired and soon my h will be served. I will tell him then that I know about the secret phone. I will tell him how he spoke to me just a few weeks ago about how people should be respected, how men who abuse women should be shot and all the while he abused me emotionally and betrayed my trust yet again . He speaks of honor and not shaming the family name to his son while he does just that. He has aspects of sociopathic behavior and is essentially gone. Doesn't care that he has destroyed a family and a marriage. So very sad and nightmarish.
