i think it is one of the most painful times, when they move forward with the D process despite all of our work to improve ourselves and to give them space. i hope that you are taking good care of yourself.
2 things that cadet repeats often here help me greatly.. one is about putting your love in a box away up on a shelf (that helps me detach).. the other is that the LBS gets to decide in the end (that reminds me of my power over my choices for my life.)
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Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13