Hopper - Thank you so much for your reply and assistance. I have read a bit of your sitch and I must say you are one strong and courageous lady!

TS - I love your idea of a check in. I think that is what I was trying to say but putting a much harsher connotation to it. I can remember at the beginning of all this thinking in 90 days I better be finished with all this not even dreaming the length of time things take or how quickly they can change. Thank you for checking in on me.

Frozen - It is so nice to hear from you ! And I am so glad things are progressing well for you. I do try to drop in. After all we are the LDC!! Thank you for your wise words. It is difficult to have any patience. But on the plus side he is opening up. So interesting to hear how your H describes the fog. I confess to still being a bit skeptical but I have finished with trying to figure it out.

Meanwhile I will keep on keeping on. Thanks again.