I don't believe I'll be asked for food and I doubt she'll be bringing her laundry around. If she views me as weak and unattractive so be it. I've opened the cage, dropped the rope, whatever, it's her life and her choices to make.
I actually told my friend that I have no hope anymore. I'm just going to get my finances in order and GAL.
Then why are you here? You don't follow any of the DB advice, and seem hell-bent on just doing what you feel like doing anyway.