almost 3 months....seems like eternity

[labug]

SP, it's never just one thing, it's the build up of things over time. Who knows what the final nail is, none of us did with the original BD. That's why you felt suckerpunched, I would bet.

It doesn't really matter what it means to her, the more important thing is what it means to you. Our thoughts and words have power as the quote I posted says. And your W felt that power.

And I know you were venting but venting is often not helpful, because it doesn't help you work through the anger.

Now, think about the man you want to be. Does that man send angry texts to friends about his W's R with him and her D?

I don't think so.

Be the man you want to be and let W do what she needs to do.

2x4 warning!
Stop being a victim.

((()))