L, I am so sorry if you feel that some of the posters were harsh.

The people on here really are just trying to help. We have all been through some form of marital crisis.

People are different and so you will find that everyone has a different approach.

We all want the same thing for you. We want you to get to a place where you can begin to heal and figure out what you want and who you want to be.

These are some of the smartest, kindest, and most compassionate people I have had the pleasure to "meet".

They ask the tough questions because they really want to see you start your journey.

So, take some time if you need, but, I hope you begin to see that we are here for you.