almost 3 months....seems like eternity

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I think this put you behind the line to start over.

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With that being said:

23. Do not argue about how your spouse feels about something (it only makes his/her feelings more negative.) Only they know how they feel! 32. Do not believe any of what you hear and less than 50% of what you see. Your spouse will speak in absolute negatives because he/she is hurting and scared.

Are you a mind reader? Probably not. Do you have Doc Brown's DeLorean in your garage? If you do, I'm stealing it All you can do now is move forward, learn from your mistakes, and do 180's on the anger issues.

IF she brings it up again do this:

I said that it was completely wrong of me to do something like that. I told her that she was indeed a wonderful mother and I apologiz for painting her in a negative light. I said that everything I said was literally me being mad at the situation, nothing to do with her.

AND back it up with actions, your 180's.