I appreciate all the great advice and insight. I never really looked at my anger as a mask. It actually makes sense. I am fearful. I am hurting. I really do not want to hurt my W. On the contrary, I want to build her up and make her happier.

With that being said, she expressed that this final nail in the coffin (her actual words). I know I am not suppes to believe anything she says, but I also realize this text was a major hit to us possbible reconciling.

Any thoughts on the "ACTUAL" severity of this? I read through the texts over and over. While I do admit it was horrible, I personally don't feel that it should be a realtionship breaking deal.


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8