S3 got upset today when H switched the TV in his room to a smaller one so he have that one, and when he took our oversized chair from the living room, so we told him short & sweet and tears well up in his eyes and he says "but I will miss my TV!!! Where will you & I snuggle in the morning? The couch isn't very snugly." we started cracking up & H goes "nice to know where I rank." I hugged him & told him that we'd find a super cool snugly place to snuggle & he could decorate the new tv with stickers (it's my old college tv)
I cried again after he left. But man, the guy has called me like 4 times & texted I love you before bed last night. We'll see if he texts again tonight. I'm not going to tell him to cool it just yet. I'm going to give it some time. Of course in a perfect world, H decides to work at being faithful & is transparent and we work out our M. However, the whole reason I stated my boundaries was that he wanted to move forward in the R without those things.
I'm detached enough not to read into anything. The guy is a mess. I'm doing ok, sad. Netflix and I have a date on the couch
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
