So, today I got a letter from my lawyer saying that our D date has changed from Feb 13th to May 7th because there is no judge available on this date and the next available date was in May.

In a way i'm kinda relieved but also disappointed that I will not have him to answer to! I'm so confused thatif this were meant to be then why has it not happened?

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending