Tori,
I think everything you are going through is normal for where you are. I would be equally anxious about the whole court thing & I don't blame you for wanting to avoid that if possible. BUt, you'll get through it and will be stronger for it.

The crying cycles through over and over, I've found. The good thing is each time it seems to be less intense and the duration lessens. THe pain is awful, but the only thing I'm holding onto is the advice from vets that the only thing that really heals is TIME. And, we all know we can't rush that.

I also understand your worry about finances. That is to be expected until you find out exactly where you'll be (what he'll contribute). And, I don't worry about you being hired b/c I can tell you are a go-getter and any employer would be lucky to have someone with your qualitites!

Thanks for posting on my thread, too! smile


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.