EXPERIMENTING with physical touch with W

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GH31 yes you are right. I do believe she is stalling in case OM doesn't work out. Of course me, her mom, and everyone who knows about this is pretty sure it will NOT work out. He still has made no effort to move to our city, doesn't drive here to see here like he did the first week, and hasn't gotten a second job. its all lies, and when W sees that it will be a HUGE reality check.

Of course there is no guarantee that will be enough to bring her back to me. So I'm not holding my breath! I'm going on with my life as if she is leaving, although I do believe she won't.

Haven't heard from her since yesterday. I'm at work right now, and don't really care much what she is up to. Mother in law did message me to tell me W told her she IS coming home today instead of tomorrow. Again, not sure why, don't care much. Just happy it is one less night with OM.

I have been paying more attention to who I take advise from on this board. There are many unsuccessful poeople, although I think some of them got to a point where their W hated them with a passion, and thankfully that is not where I am. If it was, I would be realistic about my chances.

I'm still working on my attractiveness, for W or for whoever I end up with =). I am practicing heavy eye contact, enjoying positive interaction with other women, (like the masseuse who was hitting on me). Havent had much time to read lately but I will finish the Men's guide to better relationships and marriage soon.

Please come back soon and offer me some tips on how to work my osition. It is nice to get a man';s perspective especially from a man who actually saved his marriage.