not sure where to go from here

[rosesarered]

Tired - You can't regret telling people. I know the feeling all to well. Sometimes I regret it too. I hate it when people how me how things are going. But in the end you needed to do it for your support. It would be much worse if you had no one to talk to.

Many people at our sons school do not know that we are separated. I hate it when people ask me how H is and how come he doesn't come to school events. People can be so nosy.

I have a few close friends who all know. You find out who your good friends are - they support who no matter what you do. I have discovered that I have a few of those. I would try to find out who those people are and stick with them.

Its hard with nothing is moving forward. My H still leaves every night at 9. He wants us to entertain a few people tomorrow for super bowl together. Just the friends who know our situation. Its so strange but to me is a positive baby step.

Good luck and keep venting here.