She rang me today - first time she's called since she left - she rang me to tell me that she was going out tonight with a bunch of new friends one of which was the man (I believe OM) who she was spotted holding hands with. She told me I just wanted to forewarn you in case you get any more texts etc.
Stupidly I asked her if they were dating - she said no we're just friends - stupidly again I asked her if she was going to start dating him - I don't know she told me. OUCH!
I'm finding all of this so difficult and I'm slipping up more than I would like too.
Also if any veterans could look at my recent post, any advice would be greatly appreciated:
Originally Posted By: Intact
Are my 180s/ LRT working? Te reason I ask is my wife sent me a text earlier which just said "thank you for trying to move on and for accepting this. We will make this work because of the great parents we have been, and will be"
This has really troubled me - I feel like because she can see me " moving on" it has pushed her further away - please help me - I really would appreciate any advice ASAP.
W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs 8 year old Son ILYBINILWY - Dec 12 W moved out - Jan 2013 OM - Jan 2013 I file for D - May 2013
