Honesty, I really appreciate Mr Bonds advice. Sometimes brutal really shakes people up. It's so hard to really see our own sitch for what it is, especially our own behavior.

After reading your sitch, I completely agree with what he said.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D