Right peeps I don't know how you feel about this but after a meeting with my IC I mentioned I found it hard dealing with having no contact or communication with my W and she suggested I should tell her how I feel? Basically lay my cards on the table with as little pressure on her as possible?

Goes against every DBing principle but I can't live my life in limbo?

Don't know what I'm gonna say but I feel with me not contacting her, she might think I don't care anymore and don't wish the M to continue? For all I know she maybe waiting for me to reach out to her?

What do you think? Any suggestions? Any def No's but then why no?

It won't happen yet but at least if its not what I want to here I can then GAL.

Thanks, I know it's not practising what I preach but hope you understand.

M - 37 W - 35
T - 11 M - 5.5
SD13 D10 S4
ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12
Moved out 7 Dec 12
At present - Being the best dad i can be.