It's a saying, isn't it? I'm a believer in that opposite sex friendships are dangerous and there isn't room for then in marriage.

I haven't had any girl friends since I got married but W always believes it was ok to have man friends, because they were only friends.

But this is what happens when you have an option. When you are in a bad place in your life, or your marriage, the option can sometimes become a shoulder, and then a little more. Pretty soon it's an A.

Just my opinion.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017