I would go along as YOU planned, BUT, don't be hard set on the date...play it by ear, see what he does.
Throughout this I have maintained 3 month check-ins for myself, to decide whether to keep going based on what W is doing, AND, based on what I feel I want to do. So far, I have managed to keep going, every check-in has resulted in a "I will give it 90 more days, so I don't have to worry about deciding anything in the meantime". It was just a way for me to take some pressure and obsession about the sitch off my shoulders. If that makes any sense..
Find something that works for you, takes the pressure off you, even if it is maintaining your hard-set date of Feb 14th.
my 2.5 cents...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
