Oh by the way, I wear my wedding ring because my W is still wearing hers. She doesn't wear her diamond engagement ring, but she wears her wedding band, so I keep mine on.

Only a hand full of people know what is going on with us. The other 99% of people we know, including her huge family, have no idea. So just in case I run into someone somewhere, I need to keep my wedding ring on until W decides to start telling everyone.

She is still not telling anyone knew. Not really sure why. Used to think it is because she hasn't decided yet. She does seem to be enjoying the attention from TWO men, a contrast from the lack of attention she feels I gave her.

I didn't do any touching since that one day that I posted about. But, as Laurie asked me to do, I tried to sit next to W to see if she would appear uncomfortable. W was trying to get a hair clip in D3 hair, but was struggling to keep her still, so I sat next to W on the couch and held D3 while she put the hair clip in. After D3 ran away, W and I stayed next to each other for about 3 minutes, until I cut it short and got up to do something else (like Sandi's rules say to be the one to end exchanges, not the WAS).


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017