Step 3: Asking for what I want Right now is not a good time for this since my wife wants time and space at the moment and right now would not be good to ask anything of/from her
Step 4: Cheeseless tunnels
Well not much that I have been doing except doing what I should not which is begging, pleading, apologizing for my wrongs. Also trying to convince her to work on our marriage and trying to remind her that she is the better person than I was to honor her vows of marriage. I will stop persuing and persuading her.
Step 5: Experiment
I'm going to be focusing on 180's for this step and monitoring progress.
Working on my list of 180's as I try and recall all the things she had faults with in our marriage.
