I'm learning so much here....and I applaud everyones efforts and attatudes toward changing reactions. I only wish I could have stumbled onto this 6 months to a year ago....as I've now been divoced 5 months...and am still deeply in love with my ex. I just read a saying and copied it down - Physical D isn't the end of the R, it's just a piece of paper. Emotional D doesn't happen until you decide to drop the rope for good.....and can only hope that some day I might get the ex-W to want to give us another look. I just wanted to say...thanks for the lessons you have been providing on being such a stand up guy AML!
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12
