Sorry if I struck a chord. And cutting people off just shows more control.
Just to let you know that sometimes DBing is about hearing things that we don't want to hear. I understand what your H is going through and I think he really does need to be given the chance to do things his own way for a little while before he can re-commit to the M. I just think your EAs affected him more than you realize. I do think he needs more compassion right now and I do understand that you think you've given it your all.
Go back to your posts from the beginning and you'll be able to see that.
Good luck to you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.