Sorry if I struck a chord. And cutting people off just shows more control.

Just to let you know that sometimes DBing is about hearing things that we don't want to hear. I understand what your H is going through and I think he really does need to be given the chance to do things his own way for a little while before he can re-commit to the M. I just think your EAs affected him more than you realize. I do think he needs more compassion right now and I do understand that you think you've given it your all.

Go back to your posts from the beginning and you'll be able to see that.

Good luck to you.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER