That's a pretty unusual numbering system you have on your list, LOL!
Originally Posted By: jzoom
If she asks about me boxing up her stuff and consolidating it in the spare bedroom how should I handle it?
Detached person: "I am so tired of looking at all her crap, I am so ready for this to be out of here. I could use the extra room, and wouldn't it be nice for this place to look a little more clean and orderly, that would make me a lot happier. I think I'll just box it all up and call her and ask her to arrange when she can come by and pick it up."
Clingy/ needy person: "Gosh, I would like to box this stuff up, but what if she doesn't like how I box it? What if she doesn't want me to box it? What will she think? Will she be angry? Should I ask her about it first? Or maybe I should just not do anything for now and see how things go? Maybe she'll see it all here and want to move back? "
