I’m having a hard time with my friends that care about me.
I’m supporting my H moving out and we are kind of working as a team about this. When I say that to my friends they don’t seem to understand why I’m being so nice to him about it.

Honestly I don’t have any reason to be mean especially when he seems to really care about me. If he was moving in with OW and taking our kids (referring to 2 cats we have) away from me against my will or something, yes I might have been little meaner.

I get they think I’m being a doormat but I don’t believe I am because he is not asking for anything unreasonable that I can’t bear but I do it anyway. I almost feel I shoudn’t tell them I’m just being patient and hopefully he’ll consider R with me in the future.


M37 H36
M8 T12 inc 3yr L-dist
7/12:H broke down
10/12:H dad D frm W4. BD soon after
1/13:H wants to leave
2/13:H gpa passed. Feels closer but H still leaving
3/13: S begins