Thank you everyone! I read all the comments and will take some time to absorb them all and then write up a post tonight.

Thank you all again for your help... It is much appreciated.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017