Well, thank god he left right as I was putting the kids down for naps. I could sob alone. I'm sad, but I have no regret. He is coming to watch the kids tomorrow so I can go to my alanon meeting & he can get a few more things. Then we tell the kids. They are so little, I really only think S3 will kinda understand. I'm thinking this is good to say:

daddy is going to live somewhere else for awhile. It has nothing to do with you, we are still a family, just with 2 houses.

Advice or suggestions would be great. I've read up on it, and it's just hard with them being so little.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D