I read all these threads where one spouse makes mistake(s) and the other one is willing to work on the marriage. I make one mistake in 20 years of being in a lonely marriage and my H leaves and hasn't looked back...
Doesn't seem fair when I'm willing to do anything to make it work...
Me 46/H 48 M 19/T 20 D 21 Away at College D 17 PA 9/12 H left 10/23/12
