H could still see me as logged in to the chat program even though I had my status as "Invisible". So I must have looked desperately standing by waiting for him to contact me. Ugh.....not the impression I wanted to leave.
I completely uninstalled the chat program so that won't happen again. I want to be NTBFOTP (Nowhere to Be Found on The Planet). I also no longer log into some forums we both were on that he continues to post on. I still read the forums but I don't post. That way he can't see the last time I was at the forum.
Now if he wants to contact me he must email me or call me on the phone. And I don't expect that because we have nothing left to talk about.
Me: 44 H: 48 M: 4 yrs My EA: 2010 & 2012 Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11 H left 1st time: 10/28/11 Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11 H left 2nd time: 12/23/12 Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8
