Alright, I'm trying to come up with an action plan to really detach and do this right.

1. Avoid "analysis paralysis".
1. Just stick to “don't believe anything they say and half of what I see”, don't try to figure out her actions, and don't attempt to mind read.
2. Only initiate contact when necessary for true business purposes.
1. Always be pleasant and upbeat.
2. Be friendly and brief if she contacts me.
3. Keep cleaning up house and boxing up her stuff.
1. Not telling her to get out.
2. Just allow my own space and she can do what she wants with her stuff.
4. Back off the forums.
1. Not disappear, just back off to avoid analysis paralysis.
2. Journal and read success stories when emotions are flaring.
5. GAL
1. Keep going to the weekly Wed night meeting.
2. Find something, anything, to do on the weekends to stay busy.


Any suggestions are welcome. If she asks about me boxing up her stuff and consolidating it in the spare bedroom how should I handle it?

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln