Well been detaching all week and it seems like he is pulling further away. Won't even acknowledge I am in the room when he comes home. I have been going to bed early before he gets home but I wanted to actually watch some TV after the kids went to bed last night & so I was up when he got home. He's supposed to get off work at 10 but has been coming home early like at 8:30/9pm the past few days. I think to be able to say goodnight to the kids. Last night he came home I told him the kids had just gone down so he went up & to lie with them & probably watch TV. I watched my shows then when he came downstairs around 10:30pm I said goodnight & went to bed. I only said goodnight to make sure he didn't think I was being moody & giving him the cold shoulder plus I figured would be polite like that to a neighbor so that wasn't really being pursuing right? After I took my older daughter to 1st grade today I had coffee with a friend thinking he'd be gone when I got back. He wasn't gone yet so I had to go inside & grab my purse before I took my 4 year old son to gymnastics. He didn't even look my direction but was friendly to our son & hugged him. I just left without saying goodbye. I did have to text him to see if he was working tomorrow, we have a kids birthday party about an hour away & puppy is still house training. Darn that puppy I have to interact with him way more because of potty schedules uugh.
