Tiny victory over old patterns. Someone left a VM for my H about a job. I started to email him about and I STOPPED MYSELF!!!!!

Yay....baby steps, baby!!!!!!!!!!

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Me: 44
H: 48
M: 4 yrs
My EA: 2010 & 2012
Me arrested for DV: 10/28/11
H left 1st time: 10/28/11
Reconciled after I pursued: 12/21/11
H left 2nd time: 12/23/12
Kids from OR: S16, S10, S8