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People don't "drag" her anywhere, she's an adult and makes a choice to go.


Agreed. Altho if she said no it wouldn't take a lot for her to change her mind!

Its hard to say if my kids are in danger most of the time she 'surrounds herself' with others that make her feel good so there is always someone there but if something happened in her home while intoxicated then there are no bounds.

She takes care of the kids while shes drinking/getting drunk she will quite easily go out at say 2/3pm and stay till close, there was never a quick drink in her vocabulary. As I said before I've been in the same venue once with W and I stayed to look after kids for as long as I could before leaving but when I left she was very drunk/slurring etc

Regarding Expectations/Detaching - I have a looonnnggg way to go (gulp!)

Thanks you

M - 37 W - 35
T - 11 M - 5.5
SD13 D10 S4
ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12
Moved out 7 Dec 12
At present - Being the best dad i can be.