Hey labug

I'm pretty sure she doesn't drink daily only if there was a relatives birthday party etc but she definitely drinks to excess when she does drink. Since our S I have been at the same social club as her once, the kids were in her care although I enjoyed there company, spent time with them etc by the time I had to leave she was drunk and I did wonder if leaving the kids with her was the right thing to do? She has friends that are single with no kids and drag her out, sometimes my kids are in my care so no problem but if they are not and 'she's being dragged out' I worry that anybody could be looking after them. One weekend all 3 kids were at different carers!

Regarding no expectations - are you saying I should do my bit but don't expect anything back?

Thanks again

M - 37 W - 35
T - 11 M - 5.5
SD13 D10 S4
ILYBINILWY 15 Oct '12
Moved out 7 Dec 12
At present - Being the best dad i can be.