About the above ^^^ you can't take this all so personally because most of it is about her, not you. You need to live in your head, not hers.
That's what the no expectations is about.
About the drinking and your kids, does your W drink daily? Does she drink to excess daily? Would she put the kids in an unsafe situation to drink? If so you have other problems to figure out.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
