Wow, the resentment part really hits home for me.
I'm a little confused. Can I ask you some questions?

You have seperated several times before?
Who left who?

It's starting to sound a little like your H has been the WAS several times before?
Maybe you have been trying to distance yourself from him emotionally to protect yourself. Could you be the WAS, because you were "Getting in first?"

Everybody here has a lot of "work" to do on themselves or they have already done the work. DB is for life, so we are all still working on ourselves.

WAS sometimes need as much help if not more than the LBS.

M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths