Am I the WAH or the LBH?

[2chiquitos]

Hi Juanton,
I will be honest and say I "skimmed" through your story. I would highly recommend that you write small 3-5 sent paragraphs. Thank those who repond to you by name and respond to other people's posts. The best time is during the week. Weekends, everyone's busy. This will help you so that more people stop by your thread.

If you haven't already done so, read veteran's advice to others. You will know who they are by the advice they give out.

Look through other's threads that share a similar story to your own. Follow them since they will be your biggest supporters!

About the Divorce group. I was a part of one and did it as a GAL myself. However the advice they give isn't really aligned with DB. I found 12 step programs (eg. Al Anon) to work more along the lines of DB.

Also, go through your book and jot down ideas and questions here. Everyone here has been in your shoes, emotionally.

Take care of Juanton!