I agree about making plans on VDay. Same suggestions are given for the holidays (thx, xmas, nye). You plan ahead and plan for events that lead up to that day, if that is helpful. I was considering doing something nice for a couple of my friends starting on Feb 1st. kinda like a kris kringle but for VDay. Paying it forward is a great way to build self-esteem!
BTW, getting a cat is a great idea! low maintenance!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
