I still feel I am getting mixed opinions advice.

Some are saying it's good to keep your W at home so she can see your changes. It's burns forever setup of course, but it's only been two months.

Others are saying I need to stand up for myself and kick her out and file for D.

But laurie didn't seem to think it was odd that only 2 months in, we still lived together. So I guess I stick with the pros and ignore the noise.

Especially the noise coming from people who got D'd in the end, or are still trying years later.

Never trust a skinny chef, as they say. =)

No touching today. But W did brush up against me several times while picking up D3 or playing with her. I am maintaining my distance for now unless she is initiating.

The state fair is in town next week. It's W favorite thing to do. She has to get a baked potato from there.

So I think I will say 'I am taking D3 to the fair if you would like to join us'. Good idea?


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017