I don't have much to say about your email, as I'm just starting my separation any day now, but it's probably pursuing at little.
As far as V day, our anniversary is a few days after my plan is to go get a pedi & buy myself perfume. H's bday is this month too. I do plan on having the kids make him something & baking a cake & taking it to his place after work that day. I always do his bday up big since his family never did & his parents are deceased, so that would be a small gesture.
Hang in there.
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
my plan is to go get a pedi & buy myself perfume. H's bday is this month too. I do plan on having the kids make him something & baking a cake & taking it to his place after work that day. I always do his bday up big since his family never did & his parents are deceased, so that would be a small gesture. 
