So, he suggested you to take your time with the papers. Do it. Get very busy and tell him that you have other important things to do at the moment. But it has to be real. It will also help you to stop thinking about him every minute. I’ve been there, and when people told me to get busy, I resisted thinking that it would not help. It does help, even for a couple of hours. What can you do to get busy, any hobbies you wanted to do, meeting with the friends, etc.?

He stopped communicating – use for your advantage, so you don’t need to answer about the papers. Stop communicating with him as well. Just like I said, make him think you are very busy. You don’t need to let go of hope yet. This is not the end.


Originally Posted By: heartbroken5
What about me in all of this? I guess that's my real question? What happens to me after I have been thrown away?


I had the same question when my H decided to end the M. He didn’t ask my opinion. But, this is the way it is. You need to think about yourself. You will get through this, just give it some time. It will get better and you feel much stronger.

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state