Well in about 2 hours I am to meet my wife to find out what the big talk is about. I'm 99% sure this is for her to ask for a divorce and I have little expecation for anything else. It was interesting that she asked to have this meeting in a typically crowded resturant. I guess she doesn't want me to make a scene. I've been practicing my breathing and what I will say if she does demand a divorce. I'll be using a combinantion of:

1. I understand you must do what you feel is best, I must also do what I feel is best and at this time I do not feel a divorce is what I want
2. I will not stand in your way, nor will I assist you in your plan for the divorce; I will take the necessary steps to assist in protecting myself

This is not to pi$$ her off and I don't think this is a reaction, but it is a response to her (if necessary) demand for a divorce.

Please pray for me...I'm scared to death....

M-49
W-47
M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994
No Children
4 dogs/2 cats
EA 11/2010
Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us)
As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...