I thought I posted to you earlier today but must have forgotten to hit submit.
Yes you did post earlier today on the other thread linked above.
Lampstand lets stick with this thread for now.
You are physically separated but not divorced, are you legally separated? I don't think so.
A lot of pursuing and distancing, codependence and control in all of these posts.
I think you need to realize that Actions speak louder than words.
Your actions are the thing that need to be measured, not your words. If I was your husband do you thing that I would trust anything you say? How can we work on that?
I would try to slow all this down, it did not get like this overnight and you will not solve it with one thing either.
You need small obtainable goals. That work towards rebuilding your marriage.
You will be starting over for a new marriage but first the two of you need to commit to that, lets just take baby steps and see what happens.
