Thread #8 - It's time.

[Navyguy]

Starsky - I think there's a decent chance that you're right. There have been other changes...but nothing that's really made me feel loved. She has talked about long-term plans for us quite a few times

Staying in limbo is absolutely not an option - and that's where my gut tells me we're headed (or already at).

My next IC is in 2 weeks...I already promised IC I would "tip the applecart" before then, with the goal of figuring out W's true intent here.

If her intent is to stay M to me, then I need to hear that from her and start seeing actions that make me believe it. I completely understand that piecing takes time - but I have to know that we actually are piecing in order to be willing to be patient with her.

If she's still "not sure", then it's back on the path to separating. This has gone on for WAY too long and her time to be unsure about me has come and gone. There are plenty of women out there that would love to be in my life and would appreciate everything I have to offer.

Life is too short to live like this for as long as I have...and I'm the one that has control over whether I do or not.