I thought I posted to you earlier today but must have forgotten to hit submit.

Basically it said slow down, let your H figure out his feelings.

You seem to have a lot of stuff going on that you need to figure out. How do you know that once you have him back (if that happens) the whole cycle won't repeat?

He probably wonders that, too.

Work on you, and then work on a R.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss